About Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane grew up in California and headed east to graduate with honors from New York University, where she majored in English literature and specialized in psychology. She earned her Juris Doctor from New York Law School.

Since July 2016, Annie has offered common-sense solutions to everyday problems in her column, “Dear Annie.” Her advice is unusually perceptive. She is firm, funny and sympathetic, echoing the style of her biggest inspiration, Ann Landers.

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Exhausted Over Caring for Elderly Mother Nov 11, 2026

Dear Annie: I am 62 years old and the oldest of four siblings. For the past three years, I've been the primary caregiver for our 87-year-old mother, who has become increasingly frail and can no longer manage on her own. I love my mother dearly, but I... Read More

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Grandparents Missing the Ordinary Moments Nov 10, 2026

Dear Annie: I never imagined that one of the greatest heartbreaks of my life would be feeling like a stranger to my own grandchildren. My husband and I have two grown children, and we've always been a close family. Or at least I thought we were. Our ... Read More

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Realizing Different Retirement Dreams Nov 09, 2026

Dear Annie: For 38 years, my husband and I worked hard, raised three children, paid off our mortgage and dreamed about the day we could finally retire. I always imagined retirement would be our reward for decades of responsibility. We would travel, e... Read More

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My Daughters Don't Need Me Anymore Nov 08, 2026

Dear Annie: I'm 62 years old, and lately I've noticed something about my adult children that breaks my heart. They seem to have time for everyone but me. I have two daughters, ages 32 and 35, both married with children. I know they're busy, and I try... Read More